Karen Bowlding is my cousin. She’s also a wife and mother, and an author. Her new book, Say No With A Smile,” has just been published in ebook format. While Karen and I have known each other all our lives, we’ve become closer since she started her business, Karen Bolding Edit, Write & Design. This is Karen’s 2011 vision board.
Karen was inspired by my family’s creation of our 2011 vision boards to create her own. Before a vision board, Karen’s new year “resolution” routine was to record general life goals on a piece of paper, which she promptly lost. She says this is different, and I asked her to tell me why. Here’s what she said.
- Immediate gratification. Karen says she enjoyed immediate gratification from the process of creating the board. Instead of paper and scissors, Karen used Logo Design Studio”>Logo Design Studio for her vision board. The board was created in about two hours, most of which was invested in thinking about her life. Within 48 hours, Karen had an experience that confirmed the value of her vision board.When her daughter threw food on the floor while eating dinner yesterday, Karen quickly glanced at the vision board displayed as the screen saver on her laptop. “I quickly decided this was a $5 issue, not a $50 issue and, instead of fussing at my daughter, I simply told her to finish her meal and pick up the food after she was done.” Karen says this resulted in reduced stress for both of them. Karen says that, because her vision board contains visual cues to “pick my battles,” she was able to incorporate the visual into her life to improve an important aspect of her day — dining with her 3-year old child. Karen says that now that the image is in her mind, she can call it forth when she needs it, not just when it’s in front of her on her screen saver.
- Bringing it home. Karen says that the process of thinking about what she would include in her 2011 vision board forced her to compartmentalize and be more specific about her goals. Before using a vision board, Karen’s “write-it-on-paper” method resulted in a few days of motivation. Since Karen selected graphics and fonts for her vision board that resonate for her. As a result, she’s more invested in it. Says Karen, “I was able to ‘bring it home’ and focus on specific behaviors and things I want to do to create the life I want to have this year.”
- Focus on triggers. Karen chose graphics for her vision board that reinforce positive results she has previously enjoyed as a result of engaging in specific activities. For example, because candles and a bath help her relax, the board’s visual of the candle and rocks, underneath the word, “relax” helps Karen recall peaceful times of solitude in the bath. The visual encourages her to want to re-create that experience. This desire It triggers action that leads to the specific result Karen desires — reduced stress
“My goal is to change myself, and therefore make things better for me and my family,” says Karen. “My vision board will help me do that; it’s already happening!”
By this time next year, Karen says, “I plan to have a significantly reduces stress level in large part because I will intentionally say, ‘No” more often. I also expect to have a stronger marriage as a result of communicating more clearly and effectively with my husband.” This intention is represented in the board as well.
I’ll check back in with Karen later this year to see whether her 2011 vision board is in the pile with the “write-it-on-paper” goal sheets of the past, or whether it’s has the positive impacts she expects as she leads her business and herself into 2011.
Go Karen!
Question: If you have a 2011 vision board, how do you use it? Is it a physical poster or virtual like Karen’s?
Janice says
I have Vision bored
Nguyet says
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Shaddz says
I already have a physical vision board and was introduced to that concept by Shanel Cooper-Sykes in March 2010. I am seeing the left hand side(short term goals) of my VB coming into fruition. The long term goals are yet to come. My VB is located on top of my night stand with my daily positive thoughts calendar which is the first thing that I see what I wake up in the morning.
Of course you must have SMART goals (Specific Measurable Achievable Realistic Time-oriented) and FOCUS (Follow On Course Until Successful) in order to see results. Eat, sleep, breathe, speak and dream about your goals. Its the only way that you can be constantly motivated to actually do what you want to do in life.
Good Luck and congrats to all those that are in process of creating your vision board. Its the first step to a lot of personal development.
Patty sucre says
Interesting, this might help organize my thoughts. So many things I want to do and try, I sometimes dont know where to start. Perhaps this will help. Thanks
Amanda says
This is a great idea! Thanks for sharing!
Donna Maria Coles Johnson says
Ooooh! I’m queen for a day. What an honor, and thanks!
Maya says
2011 was my very first experience with creating a physical vision board at the suggestion of Anne-Marie’s sister-in-law. It took me about a month to complete and I have placed it where it can be viewed daily.
My vision board helps keep me focused. It reminds me of what’s truly important (especially when I’m having a rough day), and allows me to reflect on goals I’ve completed, and those yet to be achieved. Often, I find I have subconsciously incorporated many things into my daily life.
I will definitely make creating a vision board a yearly resolution.
Donna Maria Coles Johnson says
Hi Maya: Thanks for sharing your vision board experiences. I love mine, and it’s also a lot of fun to see my kids embrace the concept of envisioning their goals in this way.